C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch x\u1ebfp lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta chia t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ra l\u00e0m ba lo\u1ea1i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u1ee3p l\u00fd nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n
\u00d0\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu anh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd y\u00eau anh; N\u1ebfu anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a anh; N\u1ebfu con ngoan, cha s\u1ebd y\u00eau con. L\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu n\u00e0y. \u00d0\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c, c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y n\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng \u00edch k\u1ef7.<\/p>\n
H\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y nhan nh\u1ea3n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 g\u00e1i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o bi k\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu em th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a anh th\u00ec anh y\u00eau em (d\u0129 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f3t d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay ho kh\u00e1c).<\/p>\n
Nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu. C\u00f4 d\u00e2u v\u00e0 ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau nhau b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n tr\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau qua nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1, m\u1ed9ng m\u01a1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd hy v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 nhau. Khi \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh tan bi\u1ebfn, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 mong \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y b\u1ed7ng bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t.<\/p>\n
Trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hay nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecnh. Anh y\u00eau em v\u00ec em \u0111\u1eb9p, em y\u00eau anh v\u00ec anh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, anh n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, anh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3… , t\u00f4i y\u00eau anh v\u00ec anh b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng cho t\u00f4i… C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec ta t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau hay v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec h\u01a1n lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu. B\u1edfi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u00fang ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u00ec bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao l\u00e2u s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu. V\u00ec thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1edfi ba l\u00fd do sau : s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 ganh \u0111ua kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f4ng gi\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 ta nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau h\u01a1n ta xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ; n\u00f3 l\u00e0m ta lo s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1edfng do nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch hai m\u1eb7t, m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t b\u00e0y t\u1ecf cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y, m\u1eb7t ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ta bi\u1ebft ; l\u00fd do th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ee3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i (v\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng khi s\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t).<\/p>\n
T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi hay tr\u00f4ng mong m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y c\u0169ng kh\u00e1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00ec, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed, ngh\u00e8o h\u00e8n nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1eb7c d\u00f9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c b\u1ecb tr\u00f4ng mong n\u00e0o c\u1ea3, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ganh \u0111ua, lo s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn nh\u1eefng \u01b0u th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. D\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, d\u1ed1t n\u00e1t, x\u1ea5u xa hay \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau.<\/p>\n
\u00d0\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn m\u00f2n m\u1ecfi khao kh\u00e1t b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm v\u00e0 t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t v\u1ee5 l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y hay kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n : quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 th\u1ee9c \u0103n, n\u01b0\u1edbc u\u1ed1ng, t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, c\u00f4ng danh, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda… N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i neo gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. S\u1edf d\u0129 b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 (bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i) ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn hy v\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng tr\u00f4ng mong nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u1ea5y n\u01a1i k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 ta l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 g\u1eedi \u0111i lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu v\u00e0 v\u00ec.<\/p>\n
Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 3 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00ean. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng n\u1ebfu hai ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft hy sinh, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00ec hai ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho n\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd m\u00e3i b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 hai ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, \u2026<\/p>\n
Xin g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y v\u00e0 mong r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00ecm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch x\u1ebfp lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta chia t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ra l\u00e0m ba lo\u1ea1i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u1ee3p l\u00fd nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i. 1.T\u00ecnh y\u00eau “n\u1ebfu” \u00d0\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":340,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-249","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tinh-yeu"],"better_featured_image":{"id":340,"alt_text":"","caption":"","description":"","source_url":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/ba-loi-noi-doi.jpeg","medium_large":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/ba-loi-noi-doi-768x576.jpeg","post_thumbnail":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/ba-loi-noi-doi.jpeg"},"categories_detail":[{"id":5,"name":"T\u00ecnh y\u00eau","description":"","slug":"tinh-yeu","count":22,"parent":0}],"author_name":"Ti\u1ec3u Li","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/ba-loi-noi-doi.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/paALzo-41","jetpack-related-posts":[],"comment_count":0,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/249","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=249"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/249\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":735,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/249\/revisions\/735"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=249"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=249"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/doivui.vnno1.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=249"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}